The Joyful Act of Giving

One of the most generous acts you can do for someone is the “Act of Giving.” As Mahatma Gandhi said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

When you practice the act of giving without the expectation of receiving something in return; especially to those key people you truly care about the most, you get a different level of fulfillment and satisfaction. True joy lies in the act of giving as it kindles self-esteem and brings happiness.

What does the Act of Giving mean?

‘Act of Giving’ is a mindset. It has nothing to do with your materialistic possessions. The wealthiest, smartest, and healthiest people might not always be willing to give anything up for others. On the other hand, those who are the weakest or poorest may have a tendency to want to give everything they have to those who are in need.

Also, each one of us can contribute a lot to our society. If you have wealth, you can give wealth to those who need the same for their basic needs. If you have been blessed with proficient knowledge, impart the same extensively to create a more knowledgeable, mature, and happy society. And if you are neither so knowledgeable nor have spare money, at least you can give some love and help the needy with whatever resources you have.

Why do we need to practice the act of giving?

• Whether it’s a small token of appreciation or a great gesture, the joy lies in giving more than receiving. And if that act of kindness is performed in secret without any chance of recognition, it results in more happiness. A son or daughter who takes the time and effort to surprise their parents with a thoughtful gift or a simple act of service, even when it’s not their birthday or any special occasion, can bring immense joy and happiness to the parents. The act of giving, in this case, is not just about the materialistic aspect of the gift or service, but also about the expression of love and gratitude towards the ones who have sacrificed and supported them throughout their life. And if the act of giving is performed without any expectation or recognition or reward, it results in even more joy and satisfaction for both the giver and the receiver. That’s the reason why mothers are considered the most selfless creatures in the world.

• Act of Giving is the simplest path to feeling accomplished. Suppose you see a homeless person on the street and decide to give him a meal or some money. Even though it may seem like a small act, it can make a significant impact on that person’s day. By doing this, you will feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction that you were able to help someone in need. It may be a simple act, but it can provide a significant boost to your self-esteem and sense of purpose.

• When you indulge in the Act of Giving, with each act, you get into a new relationship full of love, affection, and respect.

How to practice?

We all have the capacity to give and love more. It need not be material. Your time, energy, words of motivation, listening ear, and helping hand can go a long way toward brightening someone’s day.

Give your knowledge, money, service, solace, and most importantly love to those who need it the most. Spend a little money every now and then on a sensible gift for some of the key people in your life. Surprise them. It doesn’t have to be their birthday or a holiday. Remember, there is no better gift than an unexpected gift.  You will make them feel much more special and loved.

How does it help?

There are people around you who need what you have. Act of Giving knows no boundary. It could be to the most loved one – maybe your parents, spouse, child, or siblings. It could be to your nearest relatives. It could be to your friends, colleagues, or acquaintances. It could be to your neighbors. It could be to the social group with which you are closely associated. At the macro level, it could be to the nation and the world at large. ‘The Act of Giving’ anything to anyone at any level mostly contributes to your happiness. Let’s dive deeper to know how.

• Giving strengthens the bond between two people. For example, when a group of coworkers comes together to contribute money for a colleague’s birthday gift, it creates a sense of unity in the workplace. It strengthens the bond between coworkers and makes them feel more connected to each other, ultimately leading to a more positive and productive work environment.

• Moreover, the act of giving demonstrates the commitment to the success of the members. Like if you spend quality time sharing ideas with your friend or helping her with her new project, it shows that the giver is committed to the development and the success of the other person.

CONCLUSION

The act of giving is a beautiful and divine emotion that can bring immense joy to both the giver and the receiver. It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture, as even small acts of kindness can have a significant impact. By making giving a regular part of our lives, we not only contribute to the greater good but also experience the fulfillment that comes with helping others.

So let us embrace the joy of giving and make it a part of our daily lives. Use whatever God has bestowed on you to help others as much as you can. Remember, giving is not just a one-time act but a lifestyle choice that can bring positivity and happiness to everyone involved.